In this article, you will discover my story, how a simple series made me go from an ordinary guy in bed to a guy prized and known for his sexual qualities. How I turned the after-sex into an avalanche of compliment and affection, whereas before the ritual was a simple kiss and everyone turns to their corner.
A banal sex life ...
As you can imagine and for obvious reasons… I will not reveal here the name of the series which allowed me all this. But I'll tell you my story. You should know that I am an ordinary man: not very handsome, not very muscular… sexual level: the same. No really strange or unusual fantasies, no incredible performances, and above all, quite a few partners. All my life I have been told endlessly “making love with a person you love is at least a hundred times better” ... You still have to find that person. But hey, over time I forgot this sentence and I lived my life. But not long ago… I found THE perfect person. A woman escort Bordeaux which I fell under the spell, little by little and a little more each day… Beautiful, charming, attentive, and fun. You will tell me, then what is the problem?
Performance anxiety. I was terrified of starting a sex game with her. Everything was going well: a few meetings left and right, we spoke to each other regularly and we were on the same wavelength. But, how to satisfy her?
Or rather ... How to satisfy her to the point that she falls instantly in love, and asks for more and more ... So that she never wants to look elsewhere?
I asked myself all these questions, again and again, to spoil the pleasure of our meetings, and to no longer dare to put sexual tension between us ...
After a while, I just stopped thinking about it, being fatalistic I said to myself “we'll see when that happens” ...
… It is in fact a zero sex life!
At the same time, I discovered a series that was about sex. I started watching it, even though the goal was to educate about sex issues, it is entertaining enough to watch it through to the end. Until a certain episode, or a character will speak of an unrecognized position, called “the CAT technique” for cohital technical alignment. The character described how simple and basic this technique was, and made it very easy to have and give orgasms! But life is not always rosy… And I forgot this technique.
I did my first time with this woman, without madness, without receiving a compliment after sex, and therefore without her becoming addicted to me ... In fact, for my part, I said to myself that it was “good”. Even asking her, she replied “yes it was good” without adding another word… I started by veiling my face: yes, it was good. Not incredible, but not bad either.
Except that here ... In love, feelings prevail. Passion mercilessly crushes reason. And when a woman tells you “it was good” without adding another kidney… So it sucked. Barely good enough for her to remember the next day ... And far from the mark for her to want to put the table back on.
It's in bed that we make her fall in love!
Finally, I understood that. I felt immense frustration, what if my love stories got messed up because of my lousy knowledge of sex? What if, in fact, the place where you conquer a woman is really in bed? And if I lost the one I loved only because I was All my life, I was content to see sex as something mystical ... and even if it is a little because of the hormones that we secrete, there is a sure-fire way to be good. And to avoid this annoying silence when you ask “so, did you like it?”. You will no longer wonder if she is telling you that “it was good” out of compassion, or out of pity.
So there you are wondering how? It's very simple: by taking an interest in the “mechanics” behind sex, the anatomy, and especially the person you want to addict.
This is where the CAT method comes in. In fact, it is all about finding the perfect alignment with your partner. Even in a missionary position, to have orgasms for sure. What's the secret? Simply put, the majority of women need clitoral stimulation to cum, but what if you're not good at cunnilingus? So I'm in the same situation as you, and what I have to say should be of interest to you.
How to do the CAT position… And what it will bring you:
This position is derived from the missionary and in fact very simple, yet no one uses it. The woman below should keep her legs tight together, and you stand on top, but shoulders elevated in relation to her. Your elbows should be about level with his forehead. This position actually stimulates your partner's clitoris with your penis, while penetrating it. And you will even have your hands free!
Gone are the annoying silences, the little looks of boredom during the act, and the doubt that invades you during the act, and to you the looks full of recognition and love, the compliments on your performance, the caresses, and your wife who will keep you in bed all day!
A little tip of the end:
So I would like to give you completely paradoxical advice. If you don't want to spoil your first time with the woman you love, even if you haven't met her yet ... Then multiply your experiences. Make sure you have several conquests and vary your sexual experiences. It's like at school: revise well, learn your lessons but above all do your exercises, and practice a lot! In this way, you will be able to continuously improve yourself and be sure that you can satisfy your other half, and thus win them back with each passing day. Because as they say: It's in bed that we make her fall in love.