Giving an orgasm is an art. But in general, for us gentlemen, it is simpler, more common, and easier to take care of Madame to bring her to nirvana.
It can be quite complex to deliver a powerful and unforgettable orgasm, even with oral sex. However, there are 2 fundamental keys to achieving this Grail: intimacy, physical closeness, and altruism.
That is to say that it is necessary to combine the desire to please the other while seeking to please oneself by getting physically closer to the other. That's why oral sex is great for giving your partner powerful orgasms.
And the same goes for women: giving a man a powerful orgasm often involves fellatio. Even though penetration is seen as the highest degree of physical intimacy, there are sex positions that promote intense sensations during oral sex.
Why focus on oral sex?
It requires more self-confidence than sexual penetration since you have to rely solely on your sexual skills. This makes your “work” all the more pleasant once finished, especially if the reactions are positive.
In addition, oral sex is generally connoted as a "sacrifice", a gift of oneself that one makes to the other, to take care of him or her, that's what makes oral sex even more beautiful (and good).
Oral sex will also help you get to know the other person's body, even more, to introduce them to new sensations, which facilitates physical and emotional intimacy between you. It is this intimacy that will make your act even more pleasant.
In this guide, we will reveal the best positions to add novelty to your sex life, whether as a couple, with a Frejus escort, or with a one-night stand.
1. Le 69
The sex position of 69 is known to everyone, because it is very emblematic, because of its name which reflects the position. However, this position is indeed a turning point in a relationship.
Personally, it's a position that I didn't test right away during my first relationship, but it took me some time to talk openly about it with my partner.
This is an ideal position for those new to oral sex since it's quite easy to practice. There may be a little awkwardness at first, because the position is very explicit, and it means that your partner will have full access to your intimacy.
But it is also what makes its charm because you will have the opportunity to gain confidence in yourself and your partner!
How to practice it?
- You (or your partner) lie on your back and one climbs on top of the other in the opposite direction (head to toe).
- The head of the person above should be close to the genitals, which is why ideally, the largest is the one lying below.
- The partner on top kneels with their knees next to the armpits of the person below.
The +: you can add the fingers to maximize the pleasure, but it requires technique and gentleness.
2. The Boss Chair
This is surely the most comfortable position on this top. We're not going to lie to each other: when you're a man, this position gives an incredible feeling (and sensation). It makes you feel dominant and powerful, and it provides different sensations from fellatio where you are simply lying down.
This position is just the man sitting down and the woman kneeling to take care of her partner, which leaves room for domination role play.
In general, therefore, it is a position with which one concentrates on male sexual pleasure, but it can be reversed: you can take care of the lady in this position, and it is also very pleasant.
How to do it?
- The recipient is seated on a chair on the edge of the bed.
- The donor kneels in front of him to give him oral sex (or cunnilingus).
- If you like that, you can even add a vibrator to stimulate the clitoris or the head of the penis.
3. Edge of the bed
This is the exotic position of this top. Even though oral sex is supposed to be part of the foreplay, with this position it will stand on its own, and you can have a long time of pleasure together.
It's a position where you penetrate your partner's mouth in a deep throat, so it's pretty hardcore, and it's not just for beginners or novices, because you don't want to rush your partner.
It's a position that doesn't promote intimacy, but it will undeniably turn you on, especially if you have a little dominant side. For a woman, there is sometimes pleasure in letting her partner “use” her body for her pleasure. This position also allows the recipient to play with the other's body, nipples, etc.
Blowjob on the edge of the bed is also possible by reversing the roles, but it does not have the same appeal for women as for men. It is important to note that this is a very uncomfortable position for the woman since she is upside down.
How to do it?
- One of the partners, the receiver, is standing.
- The donor's head is slightly out of the bed, and he is lying with his back against the bed.
- The receiver will come and place his hands on the hips of his partner who is lying down.
- When this position becomes too painful, do not hesitate to change position, or to change activity to start penetration for example.
In conclusion
Here you have seen the top 3 of the best positions for oral sex. Now you can talk to your partner about it, to start getting all new and intense sensations together!
These positions will also allow you to get to know your partner's body and preferences, which will improve your sex life in general.