What do escort service abbreviations mean? A clear beginner’s guide
In listings and forum reviews, escort services are often described with shorthand. If you’re new to this world, the jargon can feel confusing. This guide gathers the most common abbreviations with clear, respectful explanations so you can read profiles and reviews with confidence.
Before you start: communicate clearly
- Avoid acronyms in first messages. Many companions prefer plain language (e.g., “oral with condom,” “oral finish”).
- Ask politely whether a service is offered and under what conditions. Never assume.
- Respect & hygiene are essential. The companion’s limits always come first.
Glossary by theme
1) Oral
BBBJ — Bare Back Blow Job
Unprotected fellatio. Sometimes offered under strict conditions (impeccable hygiene, trusted client, etc.). Never assume.
OWO — Oral WithOut (protection)
Another acronym for unprotected fellatio, equivalent to BBBJ. Same cautions and boundaries apply.
BJ — Blow Job
Fellatio. By default this usually means with condom, unless stated otherwise in the profile.
DT — Deep Throat
Deep throat. An advanced oral technique. Only if explicitly offered; never push for it.
2) Finishes
CIM — Cum In Mouth
Ejaculation in the mouth. May include “swallow” or not. Always ask clearly whether it is accepted.
COF — Cum On Face
Ejaculation on the face. Must be agreed beforehand (hygiene, consent, courtesy).
3) Anal & specific practices
Greek
Anal intercourse. Often shown as “Greek: yes/no.” If offered, it may have conditions (prep, gentleness, condom required).
DP — Double Penetration
Two penetrations at once. Rare in standard dates. Only consider if the companion clearly offers it and with explicit agreement.
4) Intimacy & kissing
FK — French Kissing
Kissing with tongue. A higher level of intimacy. Usually offered only if stated and with good hygiene.
5) Experience types
GFE — Girlfriend Experience
Romantic, affectionate vibe. Conversation, cuddles, possibly kissing (profile-dependent), warmth and connection.
PSE — Porn Star Experience
High-energy, performance-style encounter. More intense or showy elements, sometimes with roleplay or explicit finishes. Does not mean “everything goes” — personal limits still apply.
6) Appointment modes
Incall
At the companion’s place. You go to the companion’s address (home, private apartment, booked room).
Outcall
Companion travels to you. At your home or hotel. Often with a travel/safety surcharge and clear logistics.
7) Risks & scams
Bait & Switch
Luring with fake photos then swapping the person. Avoid by using well-reviewed profiles and, if in doubt, requesting a recent photo.
BDSM made simple: roles & consent first
BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline/Domination, Submission/Sadism and Masochism. These are consensual power-exchange and sensation-focused practices — not necessarily “standard” intercourse.
- Roles: a Dominant and a submissive agree on the framework together.
- Boundaries & safe word: OK / not-OK zones set beforehand + a clear stop word.
- Safety: communication, hygiene, proper gear (for bondage), strict respect for limits.
- Good to know: many sessions are non-penetrative; nothing is implied without agreement.
Conclusion
Knowing these abbreviations (BBBJ, OWO, BJ, DT, CIM, COF, Greek, DP, FK, GFE, PSE, Incall/Outcall, etc.) helps you read profiles and reviews without confusion. Even so, always favor clear communication, ask what’s included, and respect boundaries and conditions listed by each companion. Great encounters are built on transparency, respect, and safety for both sides.