People who have never tried anal sex before should definitely start doing it. Anal sex isn't painful, it's not as dirty as a lot of people think. Moreover, it can be very pleasurable if everything is done right and you prepare yourself for this new sexual experience.
First of all, you have to get rid of preconceptions like anal sex is dirty only gay people practice it and all kinds of such ridiculous things during a sexual encounter. If you have such an attitude towards anal sex, you will never feel the pleasure that it can give you.
Just think if there are so many people out there who enjoy anal sex then maybe there is even something nice about it. At least it's worth a try! No one can condemn you if it doesn't make you happy and you don't want to experiment anymore during the sexual encounter.
Now get ready for the first anal experience. Preparing for the first anal sex involves some “exercises” that you can do on your own to be ready for your partner.
Exercises for the anus
These exercises are designed for several purposes:
- Learn to relax during anal sex.
- To get your anus used to penetration
- To make sure anal sex is pleasurable.
What exactly should you do?
- Masturbation
Masturbation contributes to arousal which will help reduce any painful sensations you might feel when you stimulate your anus for the first time. But don't overdo it with masturbation! The main goal is to get you excited!
- Insert a finger
Your fingers are thin and sensitive, and you should try to insert a finger before other things.
Note. There are two things you need to do before inserting a finger - wash your hands and do your manicure, otherwise, you will inevitably find anal stimulation dirty and painful!
Choose a comfortable position, for example: Lie on your back with your legs apart. Then massage your anus with the finger on which you have previously applied a lubricant during the sexual encounter. Don't think you can do this without lubrication!
Now try to insert your finger. Stop as soon as you feel a contraction of the anus! Try to relax. Did you manage to relax? Then continue to enter. Your goal is to get rid of instinctive sphincter contractions. You will probably be able to insert your finger there.
Have you ever managed to get in? Now, with circular motions, try to insert it more deeply. Be gentle and try not to contract the sphincter. Relax while you have your finger inside! If you were unable to reinsert your finger, try to relax, your anus will open and your finger will penetrate easily. At this point, the sphincter is very likely to contract.
Anal sex has many benefits and spices up the sex life when you are having a sexual encounter. One reality that can show us how much men want to have this experience is the way escorts are chosen. Those who offer anal sex have more clients and there is certainly no escort that no client asks if they are offering this service.